Updated: Dec 22, 2021
A man/women should have themselves together before they try to court with anyone . If your living situation/ financials , healing (heart) and Spirit aren’t in tact a man pursuing a women or vise versa should be the last thing on the agenda . You can’t offer your partner anything beside sex and a dream . A Man can’t provide for his Godis , Godis can’t provide nurturing for her God if they can’t provide for themselves . The focus 🧘🏾♂️ 🧘🏽♀️ is on getting “yourself“ together instead of hiding behind a “relationship” to make you feel validated.
As a Godis / God we should be not we gotta stop allowing those type of energies of people to use us. You see the bright red flags but choose to ignore them ALL because he/she can make us feel good. Any person know the right things to do to get us in the beginning, then as soon as they know they got us, their true colors show and we see who they really are. But by that time we are so caught up in the fairy tale we created in our heads that we overlook it.
Godis especially how we know that we are naturally intuitively connected but we still allow them to build those illusions because we put our hearts before our heads. Start using your intuition and slow down so we won’t have to “heal” from every individual we deal with.