Updated: Aug 1, 2022
Having someone who values you and cares about your feelings is so beautiful , no doubt.
But the Significance of value can go way beyond that.
For example, when we feel valued at work , we tend to perform better. When our feelings are valued in romantic Partnership or friendship relationships, it can deepen the bond and our self-esteem may be strengthened.
But relationships are complex, and sometimes we may give but not get much in return.
Things can become real tricky if the other person doesn’t care about your feelings. Sometimes, you may not even innerstand this until you’re hurt. 💔😞
Before it actually gets to that point, it may Be very beneficial to learn some of the signs that someone doesn’t care about you or value the relationship. It may also help to explore whether you tend to establish this type of relationship often?
don’t value mutuality in the relationship
fail to show any interest or curiosity in you or your life
have a different agenda for the relationship than you do
don’t ever seek you or your opinion out
ignore the impact of their actions on you
don’t respond to your requests to change their behavior
The person may minimize, dismiss, invalidate, or ignore your feelings
Unfortunate but some people who live with trauma or other mental health conditions may have an impaired capacity to connect with other people on a deeper level rather than just surface level. Also comes with maturity not just an age but mental wise.
They may care about you but don’t have the tools to form meaningful bonds. It’s not a personal choice, but instead a result of the condition they live with.